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Have you ever stopped yourself from sending a text message because your friend told you it came off as desperate? You exchange s in hopes of planning a date. You shoot him a text, letting him know you had a fun night.

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And then, you wait. Two days later, you're debating whether to write off that apparently perfect person you met on Saturday night, or to pitifully send another text because, maybe, waiting for a text after a hookup is the better move. Who should text first after a hookup, anyway? Should you text a guy after a hookup at all?

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We are the generation of laissez-faire souls who thrive off meaningless sex with good-looking people. We spend our rent money on plane tickets, and we are always searching for something more. We are by no means "put together.

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But carelessness aside, we have rules. As much as we would all like to deny it, there are many unwritten rules that we all follow, even though the dating game has changed so much over the years and new rules are being written every day. The unspoken rule is you must not date anyone younger than you, or anyone who is "too old" for you. People follow this rule because they are afraid of judgment from friends, family, and peers.

Some people believe dating someone even a year or two younger while in college, for example, can be a huge gap in maturity. However, if your sex life is great — and if the two of you engage in interesting conversations and have fun and connect on a deeper level — then age is just a. Yes, sometimes it may be strange for two people to be dating with a huge age gapbut as long as it is not illegal and you are comfortable with yourself, then there should be no wrongdoing.

9 reasons why waiting to have sex may be the best thing you do for your relationship

Go out there and live your best life. This unspoken rule says you must wait approximately three days after a first date before you contact someone again. Often, people feel uneasy if the level of desire isn't equal in a relationship.

Being needy is also seen as a huge turn-off in today's society. We like our ificant others to be independent and strong, and apparently not waiting three days demonstrates weakness.

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But honestly, who cares if someone texts you right after a date or three days later? If you had a good time meeting someone, you should let the person know whenever you feel it. There should be no need to wait three days. You could literally drive non-stop across Canada in three days. You could watch four seasons of Grey's Anatomy in three days. Do you know how much happens in four seasons? But if you do, just be certain that you both enjoyed your time together and would like to see each other again. Be honest with yourself. Did it seem like you both were vibing on the same level?

Did you both laugh? Was there mention of a second date?

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If the answers are yes, with more certainty than insecurity, consider texting [again]. I say this because most people feel nervous on the first date and that can make them act out of character. First dates should not be a first impression. Simple as that. This rule says you must never assume the person you are sleeping with is only sleeping with you.

7 reasons you shouldn't wait for a partner to want the same things as you, according to therapists

People follow this rule because casual sex has become very popular in our society. You and your partner need to get straight down to business and have a mature conversation about what you want. If being exclusive is what you desire then make that heard.

That means using a condom and getting tested regularly, if you weren't already aware.

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Relationship coach Nina Rubin ly said you should ask yourself a few questions to know if a casual relationship is right for you. Are your expectations being met? Are you leading someone on? Are you on the same ? Perhaps you want the other person to know that you're thinking about them.

Or maybe you want the person to think you struck out at the bar and that the 3 a. Or perhaps, you want the person to know they only look good in the dark. Sarcasm aside, Australian psychologist Evita March discovered that people have different reasons for wanting a booty call.

This can definitely cause a few problems between you and your partner if you both agreed on a night of passion. That way, you can spare yourself the heartbreak in the future.

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This person saw you naked last weekend and will probably again in the near future. Get over yourself and say hello if you really want to. But if you do end up sending the text, then be prepared not to get a response. If you want to text someone after a booty call, then great. Remember that you can do as you please. According to this rule, if you ever send a text message and the other party does not respond, do not send another message until the person does.

If my partner isn’t ready for a serious relationship, should i wait?

Breaking this rule apparently makes you look needy and eager. Supposedly, texting twice in a row indicates you're a little too into someone, and that is not good.

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Sometimes, people have more to say than the last text they sent and sometimes, they forget something. Maria AvgitidisCEO of matchmaking service Agape Matchbelieves that everyone has a reason why they might not respond promptly to a text message. This unspoken rule says you must not sleep with someone until at least the third date or the third encounter. What is wrong is feeling obligated to wait a certain of dates to have sex because of some silly rule.

Dating expert and author Susan Winter believes waiting for the third date is a good rule to have. It should happen when you and your partner feel the most comfortable and ready to take that next step, and sex and intimacy expert Irene Fehr agreed. If you normally jump in the sack too soon, then it might be best to wait a couple of dates. But if you know that this is something you want to do and you trust your partner completely, then go for it! This rule says you must not consume any more than two drinks on a date.

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You must only get buzzed, nothing more. You don't want to look like you're super nervous and are pounding back the liquor. You want to be classy. And if you don't know the person that well, you want to feel safe. Having a drink or two often acts as a social lubricant. In the world of business, drinking at networking events and other social gatherings is completely natural. Having a drink or two on a date is fine, but just make sure you know your limits, and set personal boundaries.

How long should i wait to have sex?

For some, that may be two drinks, and for others, it could be a pitcher of beer. Whatever your limits are, ensure you trust your date and yourself. You're probably not on that level of comfort with your date yet. Either way, whatever you order on the first date can say a lot about you. But whatever the case may be, eat whatever you want to eat. And hey, if you like salad, go ahead and order one! This rule says that the time it takes for you to respond to a text message must be equivalent or approximate to the time you waited for that text message.

17 women reveal how long they made their boyfriend wait to have sex, and why

Basically, I waited for you, and now you wait for me. Again, you can see the common thread here of not wanting to be perceived as desperate or needy. But this rule is by far the pettiest rule that has ever been created. If you're the kind of person who is glued to your cell phone, don't be ashamed to answer someone back right away.

Here are the unspoken rules of hooking up you should *actually* follow

You answer your friends and family back promptly, so why not everyone else? Of course, you can make someone wait for you if you were annoyed waiting for their response.

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But paying close attention to how long it took someone to answer you, then waiting that same amount of time to respond back to them is a little wacky. Texting someone back right away could either mean you were on your cell phone, or you were waiting for the person to text you back. Each and every one of these rules are silly in their own way. Even though they were made up by society, the only rules you should follow are your personal values and beliefs. Know your limits, be comfortable, and do what ultimately makes you happy. Nina Rubinlife coach.

Evita MarchAustralian psychologist. Pella Weismand psychotherapist and dating coach. Dawn Maslarlove biologist.

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